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My friend MATTY!


   Hi friends!
          A few hours ago,I was with a friend outside my  house,we were just talking about secondary school and how fun it was spoke about some of my classmates and where they are right now,the babe who is still in secondary school had more stories to tell compared to me who was done,I had some key stories to tell anyways,you know, as the elder in the duo! Lolz
        I left secondary school sometime ago,a lot of my classmates that I expected to graduate together with me on the same day didn't,not because they didn't want to but because they couldn't,for some, circumstances didn't allow.
        One of those people is  girl named Matti(that's not her real name but we'll be calling  her that for security purposes),Matti to me was the best female mathematics student,well,at least in my class of about 25 students. Matty was always competing with me,she always wanted to show everyone in class that she had the capacity to score higher than me in all subjects. Why she was so hell bent on tackling me was baffling to me because  I wasn't the best student in class as at that time! I expected to be very less a challenge for her,but nevertheless she was welcome challenge! Her presence always made me buckle up because I knew that there was someone closely watching me. She wasn't so much of my friend but she was my classmate and I really and sincerely loved her presence.
     The change started when we got into senior secondary one,it seemed she started feeling too big for her age and wanted to try out  the things that adults usually did..I didn't say anything ooo...To cut the whole story,I am presently through with secondary school and Matty is a nursing mother of a beautiful girl,who at the moment isn't anymore a baby.
      Not only did Matty miss our graduation ceremony,she also missed writing the SSCE exams,and that to me was really painful. For a girl who I considered intelligent,that was hurting. Even if I was  a little grateful to God for taking away my competition,{that girl was a pain on my neck},it still felt bad. That girl could do anything as long as it guaranteed her scoring higher than me in any subject,it was almost like I was their only one in that class,but at the same time,it infuriated me that she had allowed some guy put her destiny on pause,all in the name of fun...how pathetic!
     I really don't know what is happening with Matty now,I have seen her a few times and I must tell you,she doesn't at all look happy. A few months back I recited a poem,a line that struck me was this:
  

 "I know what it's like to wanna feel loved but I do not think it justifies you giving yourself up to some guys lust"
     
        The idea of running to some guy all in the name of wanting to feel loved seems very annoying to me. For Heavens sakes,if you want to feel loved,there are several ladies out there who can show you love,why it has to be a guy really baffles me,I'm talking to the ladies now. I'm sure its no news to you that ladies are much more at the receiving end,we are the ones who get pregnant and have to walk around with big tummy all through the street and everywhere we go,we are the ones who go through much shame,most times the names of your supposed partner in crime is ignored because you are the one who would have to bear the stigma all your life but why are we still the ones that run into the web created by spiders who call themselves guys?        
     Why can't we learn our lessons and choose to wise like David who didn't commit a sin twice,why? Because he knew that making the same mistake twice and in the same way is nothing but an act of a foolish person! Now I fully understand why Joseph ran for his life,he had come to realize that desisting from sexual sin was pure common sense!
      Ladies! please stop giving guys something they do not qualify to have. Your body is so precious that the only person with the authority to touch it from its creator is YOUR SPOUSE!...I have heard some ladies say things like,its my body and stuffs like that. Sorry to disappoint you but its not and will never be your body...you didn't create it. whether or not you believe it,God owns your body and there is nothing you can do about it dear! Stop selling it cheap!!!!!!!

Submitted to His word,
Amakason!
   

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